Sunday, October 26, 2008'♥
//why,but it's yy. //
A friend in need is a friend in deed. I cant tell how long or how our friendship began. It must be of typical cuppas of latte in the afternoon. No, it cant be , since for as long as i remembered, our conversations always spanned across late nights, nasty drummers that made our girly hearts skipped,punk vs indie musik and growing up issues.
I cant always put a word to describe how dear this friendship means to me,since commitments are already demarcating us from everything else. though i reckon it must mean quite a bit if somewhere 3 years down the road, i have already decided that she has to be my maid of honor or bridesmaid ( with gun.) in my wedding.
so first and foremost, i congratulate on her anniversary with eugene. two , here's something for you when life's difficult.
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!
- Rudyard Kipling
